Trust comes first
The hardest part of online dating isn't finding someone — it's knowing they're real. That's why we built Per van Altena around hand-verified profiles and honest, unhurried conversations.
Every profile verified by hand
New members are reviewed and approved manually before they appear. No bots, no auto-generated accounts — real people only.
No fake profiles, ever
We would rather show fewer profiles than fake ones. Honesty over numbers is the whole idea behind Per van Altena.
Scam-aware from day one
We watch for the classic tricks — money requests, off-platform pressure, too-good-to-be-true stories. If something feels off, report it and we act.
Your data stays private
Your details are only used to run your profile and help you connect. No selling your data, no spam. See our privacy policy.
If you've been let down before, we understand. Take your time, ask questions, and never send money to someone you haven't met. A real connection is never in a hurry — and neither are we.
Ready to meet someone real?
Creating your profile is free and takes two minutes. Women join 100% free — men choose a simple membership to start chatting.